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T\u00fato my\u0161lienku e\u0161te nesk\u00f4r obohacovala","datePublished":"2018-06-16","dateModified":"2023-04-27","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.sigal.sk\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.sigal.sk\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/25a824e14ead2d36aba24b918221841350fb41cea98048e9b1929df8c4bf4bd8?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/25a824e14ead2d36aba24b918221841350fb41cea98048e9b1929df8c4bf4bd8?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"sigal.sk","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.sigal.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a289141_w16547_t1530199457.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.sigal.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a289141_w16547_t1530199457.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.sigal.sk\/opakom-lasky-je-lahostajnost\/","wordCount":454,"articleBody":" Franc\u00fazska filozofka Simone Weil o pozornosti povedala, \u017ee ide o naj\u010distej\u0161iu a najvy\u0161\u0161iu formu ve\u013ekorysosti. T\u00fato my\u0161lienku e\u0161te nesk\u00f4r obohacovala a do\u0161la a\u017e k tvrdeniu, \u017ee pozornos\u0165 je hlavn\u00fdm predpokladom l\u00e1sky a d\u00f4very.  Tak\u017ee ako je to s l\u00e1skou. Je pozornos\u0165 jej synonymom?Kedy sa m\u00f4\u017eeme vz\u00e1jomne podozrieva\u0165 z pocitov \u010distej l\u00e1sky? Napr\u00edklad vtedy, ke\u010f sa pristihnete ako kupujete namiesto jednej \u010dokol\u00e1dovej \u0161i\u0161ky e\u0161te jednu vanilkov\u00fa naviac. Alebo v de\u0148, ktor\u00fd zru\u0161\u00edte tajn\u00fa rezerv\u00e1ciu v drahej re\u0161taur\u00e1cii a zvol\u00edte namiesto prekvapenia rad\u0161ej dom\u00e1ce rande v podobe ve\u010dera pri filme s hor\u00facou \u010dokol\u00e1dou, preto\u017ee si r\u00e1no v k\u00fape\u013eni nepustili hudbu a vy viete, \u017ee toto maj\u00fa vo zvyku len pri nechuti soci\u00e1lnej interakcie v spolo\u010dnosti. Ako to v\u0161etko o svojich polovi\u010dk\u00e1ch viete? No predsa preto, lebo ich so zdrav\u00fdm z\u00e1ujmom sledujete, star\u00e1te sa a naozaj si ich v\u00e1\u017eite. Je prvorad\u00e9 si ale uv\u00e1\u017ei\u0165, \u010di si s danou osobou viete predstavi\u0165 bud\u00facnos\u0165 a odpoveda\u0165 si na p\u00e1r ot\u00e1zok. Bud\u00fa niektor\u00e9 ich vlastnosti nesk\u00f4r viac na pr\u00ed\u0165a\u017e, m\u00e1te rovnak\u00e9 ide\u00e1ly a v\u00edzie do bud\u00facna, a \u010do zvierat\u00e1, ve\u010f povedzte, mysleli by ste na to, ak\u00e9ho psa si spolo\u010dne k\u00fapi\u0165 \u00faplne s hocik\u00fdm? Tieto veci v\u00e1m nem\u00f4\u017eu by\u0165 \u013eahostajn\u00e9 v pr\u00edpade, \u017ee ste v tom u\u017e skuto\u010dne hlboko a bezn\u00e1dejne po u\u0161i. Teda ke\u010f vezmeme toto tvrdenie, \u017ee \u013eahostajnos\u0165 stoj\u00ed na strane proti l\u00e1ske, ako pravdiv\u00e9, dostaneme sa aj k ot\u00e1zke, pre\u010do opakom l\u00e1sky nie je nen\u00e1vis\u0165. Nen\u00e1vis\u0165 nem\u00f4\u017ee by\u0165 opakom l\u00e1sky, ke\u010f si stoj\u00edme za n\u00e1zorom, \u017ee l\u00e1ska znamen\u00e1 pozornos\u0165, preto\u017ee nen\u00e1vis\u0165 je istou formou pr\u00e1ve z\u00e1ujmu a niekedy a\u017e posadnutosti, akur\u00e1t, \u017ee v tom nepeknom smere.\u010co je teda „l\u00e1ska“ bez starosti? Viete ako a kde nasmerova\u0165 bozky aby boli cel\u00ed bez seba ale netu\u0161\u00edte ako, a \u010di v\u00f4bec pij\u00fa k\u00e1vu? \u010ci maj\u00fa strach z v\u00fd\u0161ok? Tak\u00e9to \u201e\u013e\u00fabenie\u201c je v\u00e4\u010d\u0161inou iba prezle\u010den\u00fd cht\u00ed\u010d a n\u00e1klonnos\u0165, ktor\u00e9 sa hlavne u mlad\u00fdch \u010dasto zamie\u0148aj\u00fa pr\u00e1ve s l\u00e1skou. Tak\u00e9to pocity nie s\u00fa samozrejme zl\u00e9, s\u00fa naopak d\u00f4le\u017eitou s\u00fa\u010das\u0165ou romantick\u00e9ho vz\u0165ahu, ale je d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9 pochopi\u0165, \u010di spolu s nimi ide aj o l\u00e1sku ako tak\u00fa, aby sme potom zbyto\u010dne neklamali seba sam\u00fdch.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        4.4\/5 - (7 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Opakom l\u00e1sky je \u013eahostajnos\u0165","item":"https:\/\/www.sigal.sk\/opakom-lasky-je-lahostajnost\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]